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artiegf
11-07-2008, 05:38 PM
Anyone on here have to deal with your bf's ex spouse or girlfriend like I do? She still wants him back so she sends him emails with naked pics of herself.

johnsgirl
11-07-2008, 06:17 PM
wow, sending naked pics to her ex? some people simply have no self-esteem...
my boyfriend's ex-fiancee is also constantly trying to get in contact with him but i don't think she does things like that...
well, at least your boyfriend is so open and honest with you! and maybe she'll get it into her head that she won't win him back...

k'sgyrl<3
11-07-2008, 06:17 PM
Wow...i don't know how to approach that. Because ultimately anything that is done could influence his daughter possibly in a negative way. Maybe someday she will grow up and act like a mature woman...until then i don't know what to recommend :(

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-07-2008, 06:17 PM
That's a yucky situation.

My Passive side would ignore her.

My Aggressive side: *insert evil grin*

1. Would respond to her email with:

A. My hoohah is the only one he desires
B. I read your emails before he does and delete them if they are all about you or edit them if they include info about your daughter.
C. Write a reply as if I was him --saying how much he is in love with me and that the sex is phenominal...never knew that it was really possible to see stars.

Phone Calls: Nothing you can do about those. He is the only one that has the power to cut her off when the convo gets dirty.

G has an ex that does this kind of stuff. He tells me and I tease him immensly because I know the thought of being with her creeps him out.

Best of luck to you.

hawk71049
11-07-2008, 06:29 PM
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Anyone on here have to deal with your bf's ex spouse or girlfriend like I do? She still wants him back so she sends him emails with naked pics of herself. And when he calls to talk to his daughter she talks dirty to him. I guess she figures she can lure him back with his loins.... little does she know I got that covered thank you very much! Anyway, he has told her not to send them but she does anyway, I have his email passwords and he has told me I can check his email anytime I want he has nothing to hide. Its just kinda upsetting to read her emails to him telling how much she loves him still and why cant he just come back to her. Also the pics.uggh. Somedays I can ignore it but other days its unbearable. He cant ignore her completely because they have a daughter together. So she is with us for life I am afraid unless she magically combusts. Sorry that is so unChristian like but gosh its not like its not hard enough to be dealing with deployment but to have to deal with her crud is hard. She sends him nasty emails also and it upsets him. I dont want her taking his mind from his job.

Oh… I read your post and had to LMAO… not that it is funny, well… yeah it is funny! it is amazing that there are those out there that continue to push themselves off on others by whatever means. Well, no I never had this exact thing happen, close but not like this. I can answer my thoughts here as to how I feel about it.
Simply put... you can’t change her, don’t even try! Best thinking from me would be for him to simply address this topic once in his IM or emails and ignore the rest of her silliness. If he continues to discuss this so will she. It will go away! honest it will, she will get tired and quit, at some point. Yeah, I know they have a child together and continued communication is necessary, but when she sees that his communication is around their child and only that... she will stop. Don't add fuel to her fire... lol

I think the key here is to stop reading HIS emails and trust him, he did share his pass word! Great in the beginning! It is not helping your situation for you to continue to read this shit! STOP! He needs to address this and not you. Tell him one time… if you have not already… how you feel about this and leave it alone. Allow him to fix it! It is his place, not yours! Right?

I would suggest the two of you find other topics to discuss, really! Stay away from this one. It is not adding one day to your happy is it? Anyway… take care and good luck… still laughing at her! Talks dirty ha ha ha, just can’t believe it the nerve of her… hawk

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CVal
11-07-2008, 06:32 PM
Do not open her e-mails. If it drives you crazy, just don't go there.

There is a reason there is a delete key on your computer.

Or if you want to be really mean, if you can do Photoshop or have a friend who is good at it, add about 100 pound to her picture and send it back to her. Point out the the next time she sends you unwanted porn, you might *accidentally* send it to everyone in your e-mail address list.

hawk71049
11-07-2008, 06:33 PM
That's a yucky situation.

My Passive side would ignore her.

My Aggressive side: *insert evil grin*

1. Would respond to her email with:

A. My hoohah is the only one he desires
B. I read your emails before he does and delete them if they are all about you or edit them if they include info about your daughter.
C. Write a reply as if I was him --saying how much he is in love with me and that the sex is phenominal...never knew that it was really possible to see stars.

Phone Calls: Nothing you can do about those. He is the only one that has the power to cut her off when the convo gets dirty.

G has an ex that does this kind of stuff. He tells me and I tease him immensly because I know the thought of being with her creeps him out.

Best of luck to you.

did not see ax reply... another idea, never thought of it this way... he he he


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axscntU8_Dpstv
11-07-2008, 06:34 PM
My aggressive side is BAD! But, Thank Goodness, it normally never fruitions past the thought.

I seriously would (and do with G's ex) handle it the way Hawk suggested.

hawk71049
11-07-2008, 06:43 PM
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ok i get the drift here...lol
so it has become a battle between the sexes, humm...
i like humor sometimes... as ax would say... *insert evil look*
you have his pass word, right... hell, share it with his ex! :eek: :eek:
let her see your pics...(;) )
keep us posted... lol

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hawk71049
11-07-2008, 06:55 PM
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ok... I admit I don't always look at profiles... but did just look at your profile... lmao
you sell corn for dairy cows...
sell her some corn... :eek:

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axscntU8_Dpstv
11-07-2008, 07:48 PM
Gosh Ax its like you and I came from the same cookie jar. Well quite honestly I have done all of those things to some degree. She and I had an email war for two days straight. it stresses T. so I try to keep it at a minimum. He has given me all the power to do as much with his financial stuff and to keep her out of things. Also I tell him when I have done something sneaky to her and he has yet to get mad at me. He just says ignore her or dont delete her emails if they are about his daughter. He loves me I know it. I think one thing is that all of this is so fresh for her. She is the one that cheated on him when he was on his 1st deployment and she is the one who has done horrible things to him. He just has always put up with it to be able to see his daughter. Its a nasty situation and I could go on and on. Its like he is fighting two wars. Sometimes the Taliban is less damaging than she is...


LOL...oatmeal raisin I hope.

Don't worry about the "email" war. It's in the past and I know you're a better person than that.

In the future you could "kill her with kindness". The exes love that! LOL

Proud Mom
11-07-2008, 08:39 PM
When I first read the thread title I thought YOU were getting naked pictures from YOUR ex LOL....I was gonna say we do have a photowall to share them on ya know....put little squares of paper over "private" parts so they arent xrated LOL

I keep going back and forth from punching her in the face to posting them on a webpage somewhere.

Just delete them as she sends them. And unless her email has information about his daughter delete those as well. Because he isn't deleting the pictures if your finding them in there.

Then I flip to the other side that says let him handle it, it' his ex and mother to his child.

But then I go back to playing email monitor while he's deployed.

Darlin if you can kill a cow then she needs to behave herself!! LOL

Keep us posted on the continuing saga.

ps: Tell her your going to sell her "picture" collection on ebay if she keeps sending them. You can always donate the money to a worthy cause ya know LOL

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-07-2008, 10:23 PM
Not smiling?

Maybe she was giving her "come hither" look! hahahahaha

I don't think men really get how vindictive and catty some women can be. They'll never understand.

Proud Mom
11-07-2008, 10:39 PM
Not smiling?

Maybe she was giving her "come hither" look! hahahahaha

I don't think men really get how vindictive and catty some women can be. They'll never understand.


No by golly they won't

And I think you need to take them all, make a calendar and sell it and donate the money to the wounded Soldiers fund of something...like that Italian Model did....only this chick isnt a model and well.....maybe a few dollars can be raised...seeing as how she emailed them thru cyberspace Im sure we can find a loophole about privacy and her suing over it LOL

CrustySMSgt
11-07-2008, 11:44 PM
ROFL... great replies... if it weren't for the daughter, you could have all kinds of fun with this situation...

I'd find somewhere to upload 1 pic; blur her face, and send her the link. Tell her if she doesn't stop immediately, you're going to buy the domain name "nastynekkidpicsfrommyBF'sex.com" and post all the pics there, uncensored, and send the link to everyone in oyur BF's contact list.

I agree that he must send a strong message to her... when she starts talking dirty, he needs to hang up. If he gives any inclination that he is having fun with it, the mixed message he is sending will add fuel to her fire.

hawk71049
11-08-2008, 01:02 AM
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But crusty crusty, your forgetting something here… she’s the farmer’s daughter… I mean a preachers daughter! Thed pictures can’t be all that bad. I say we need to judge em. Anyone one with me, guy’s that is, you girls would never understand! I can see it now she prolly wearing one of those old fashion aprons and artiegf is getting all worked up over notin… I mean really… think about it a preachers daughter! How could it be nasty RIGHT!

Again post the pictures here on the forum… artiegf now you need advice here… we give it to you! You can’t back away from that right! I mean look at all the spam and such we see here on this site. It’s time I tell you.. like someone said if it that pad put them pasties where you think they need to be, now how much stronger message would that be to have a judging contest, you could let her have a look see the results. Besides she prolly needs something to pray about. Come on… what is gona hurt!?

who's with me on this one... come on...:D

PS: Crusty if she were talking dirty to you would you really hang up?


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axscntU8_Dpstv
11-08-2008, 03:15 AM
Voyeur? LOL...I think a lot of men have that fetish!

artiegf
11-08-2008, 03:18 AM
thanks ax i knew i didnt spell it right! but yeah he is all about that

Cajun's Girl
11-08-2008, 12:11 PM
Hoofta I missed this thread! What a calamity! There's some good ideas on here hehehe. Unfortunately it is distracting to him, and not a lot you can do at this point but be supportive to him..and probably cracking a few jokes at here will help. But he needs to get her to stop..if it involves the law then so be it. Make sure he keeps everything for custody purposes when he gets back. He can note how her behaviors were unwelcome and technically are sexual harassment...nomatter an ex or not. You could have him warn her as well that if she doesn't stop he will file a suit against her. Otherwise it's up to him to make his own game plan! In the meantime just keep everything and ignore her the best you can!

sweetvanity
11-08-2008, 12:12 PM
okay... warning: this is going to sound superficial... but you already got a ton of awesome replies...

is the ex hott? b/c if she was-- then, okay i'd probably get alittle pissy about the photos.

if she's not... and *evil chuckle* she obviously thinks she is... (which is personally my FAVORITE type of ex) well then that's just too much fun to pass up. every time she sent an email i'd be calling over to your bf (that is if he was home) and be like, "oh honey, look how sweet is that? *insert exes name here* wants to show you just how much you've upgraded by choosing me." either that or i'd write her an email saying, "please stop-- you're embarrassing yourself."

and of course because i'm a competitive whore when it comes to aesthetics, its always a great motivator for me to keep myself if tip-top condition... b/c lord knows i don't want to end up looking like THAT.

on a serious note, i've had to deal with the psycho can't give up exgf before... and the best solution always came when my boyfriend stepped in and put his foot down about the entire situation. then and only then did she get the freakin' hint.

as for M and his ex... she likes to refer to me as "the girl you cheated on me with" b/c apparently she thought there was some kind of "grace period" after a break up where you can still consider it cheating.... and the girl is going to be a doctor... SCARY! anyway, we're going to see her at graduation in June... and i'm sure she'll make so b*tch comment about me, to which he's going to reply... "oh, you mean my WIFE?" (since we'll have done the JOP by then)
and then we'll allow her adequate time to pick her jaw up off the floor.

ChiefAD
11-08-2008, 02:46 PM
and another good episode for army wives

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-08-2008, 02:49 PM
and another good episode for army wives


True but...it happens in civilian life. Sooooooooo....Desparate Housewives could also use it.

ChiefAD
11-08-2008, 03:16 PM
lol but when I logged it; it said militarytimes.com your online resource for everything military so I wasnt thinking of that show lol

ChiefAD
11-08-2008, 03:17 PM
so accuentate the positve lol

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-08-2008, 03:27 PM
lol but when I logged it; it said militarytimes.com your online resource for everything military so I wasnt thinking of that show lol


I'll grant you that, but you logged on via the internet and ummmmm.....surely there's a commercial/ad somewhere to prompt your memory.:)

I personally hate Desparate Housewives. I don't get the point of a bunch of women degrading themselves for the sake of getting a man. I mean c'mon there are plenty of men out there. Granted not all may be a particular standard but there isn't a man around that I've come across that is worth me losing my self-respect for.

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-08-2008, 03:35 PM
so accuentate the positve lol


The positive is that not all women are like the exes mentioned in this thread. Many of us are phenominal women that make our guys proud.

hawk71049
11-08-2008, 04:24 PM
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The positive is that not all women are like the exes mentioned in this thread. Many of us are phenominal women that make our guys proud.
ax, I mean…. I mean…… I mean……she can’t be all thattttttt bad…

she would do anything in the bed, and I mean everything.
Unless… of course she knows what artiegf did…

I deleted the naked photos and left the dog.
Now, I like what CG has in mind, keep the dang pictures for later use in a court of law! I mean that has some true potential, and I am serious! Especially after he has made it clear he does not want this crap in his emails! You can bet at some point in time the doggie will get replaced with the child as far as the bribes go. Judges love this kind of stuff, and besides he too will have those wonderful pictures.


Oh ax… where are you... (I love it) Women are phenolminal you just couldn’t put the men in their… lmao ..........Got Ya… he he he

PS: I still think you should post pictures here on photo wall….lol

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hawk71049
11-08-2008, 10:40 PM
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Well I didnt delete the pics I just deleted the message from his email.lol
The pics are safe and sound on my computer. I agree he is going to need all the material he can get when it comes to custody.
I dont know about a tv show but it sure makes for a good thread.hehehe.
And I might just post those pics:D of course if hawk wants to judge I would be glad to send them in a PM and he can do what ever he wants with them.

Your computer :eek: :eek: you are not a trusting soul….lmao

Now if we had the dirty pictures (with pasties of course) with a clip of the dirty talk (beep out nasty language) he he he
What... hawk judge! :eek: :eek: I have a heart condition remember! But, then if you insist!

Well, I suppose since she is the preachers daughter, we could call it a work of art. Well, you know, like the Mona Lisa painting… … only gone naked ( http://www.tomgrossmedia.com/art/archives/000334.html) that's art right?

Besides, if this is handled properly Alice might not delete our fun a humor, you are looking for advice right?

What we try to do is give you the tools to deal with such crap as this, and that is exactly what we would be doing, so what is the big deal here…

<shuffling through notes, do we need your pic to compare it to, right?;) > j/k... he he he he


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Proud Mom
11-09-2008, 02:54 AM
Well the weirdest thoughts just pop into ones head when letting your mind wander while washing dishes

Seems to me that most churches have email now and that if someone would just .....happen.....to email the nasty pics and emails to the church noted with grave concern about the morality of one of the flock......*evil grin*

Proud Mom
11-09-2008, 09:48 PM
I'm glad he deleted them! And look at you intoxicated and online at 4 am LOL

Did ya have a hangover?

Proud Mom
11-10-2008, 03:09 AM
ummmm how is she going to move to his next post? they arent married and the military wont pay to move her.....people just crack me up.......You sure got your hands full with that little nekked thing don't ya!! LOL

Proud Mom
11-10-2008, 03:29 AM
Ax looked at her nekky pictures!!! lmao....that's great....I haven't seen either of you but your the prettier person just because your one of us! LOL

artiegf
11-10-2008, 03:32 AM
haha. I made Ax look at the least disgusting one just to judge how anorexic she is. You know us women... and thanks PM I love being on this forum. Hawk is gonna be soooooo jealous when he reads this post

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-10-2008, 04:11 AM
My eyes are still stinging from the pain of having to see NakieStick.

hawk71049
11-10-2008, 06:31 AM
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My eyes are still stinging from the pain of having to see NakieStick.

Trust me I take ax word for it..!! :D :D :tongue:

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artiegf
11-10-2008, 12:00 PM
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Nakie Stick. hahahaha AX you are awesome and the above photo came to mind. Unfortunately I will probablly have to see more of Nakie Stick in the months to come. :( I think I am in for a long winter and if I make it out of this deployment sane and not blind it will be a miracle and I deserve the biggest damn rock ever because this MGF has endured more than most in our short time and somedays its not always so cool. Other days I just dont care. And somedays I think damn I am awesome..... in the end T. seems to think I am pretty awesome and tells me often and when we are old and gray we will laugh at this time in our lives. *she smiles with a nervous smile* well at least thats what I keep telling myself( as I stroke the edge of my shiny knife and think of all the evil things I would do if this was a horror flick and I were the villainess or maybe I was the vampire slayer) Sorry its 0530 and T. just woke me up to put money in her account, makes me a little more vindictive....

Proud Mom
11-10-2008, 01:44 PM
My eyes are still stinging from the pain of having to see NakieStick.


I've come to the realization that for NakieStick and man frenching goats and things of that nature we just really really need an Emergency Eye Wash Station on this forum!!

Proud Mom
11-10-2008, 01:47 PM
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Nakie Stick. hahahaha AX you are awesome and the above photo came to mind. Sorry its 0530 and T. just woke me up to put money in her account, makes me a little more vindictive....


Cool picture LOL

But I do have a question. Is there a regular child support amount and agreement in place? Done up all legal like or does he just send her money when she asks?

artiegf
11-10-2008, 03:48 PM
And so she sends the pics again since he didnt get them the first time:( I give up.

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-10-2008, 05:43 PM
And so she sends the pics again since he didnt get them the first time:( I give up.


Gotta give her an E for effort. **rolling eyes at her**

artiegf
11-11-2008, 04:40 PM
Finally got to tell her not to send anymore pics. He had me email it from his account since he is out of pocket right now. I am sure this wont be the last but at least for now it is handled.

caliny
11-11-2008, 04:53 PM
Hey artie, I've been thinking. Keeping the pics for documentation is a great idea. You might consider NOT deleting the emails as they give a context for the pics. It can also help show a timeline of "I asked her to stop sending such pics on this date, she sent email x, y, z on these dates". If you don't want him to see the pics at all, could you create a new email account and forward a copy of all of her emails to that account?

Cajun's Girl
11-11-2008, 05:16 PM
And so she sends the pics again since he didnt get them the first time:( I give up.

Save, document, document!

You can also make a folder in your email and stuff them in there. Keep your sent messages and the received ones from her.

He NEEDS to tell her to stop though instead of pretending he didn't get them. He doesn't want them and he shouldn't be scared to hurt her feelings. It is what it is...and he wishes not to have to deal with it all. Too much drama for a man, let alone a man under extra stress!

Katnip
11-11-2008, 08:49 PM
What a mess she's trying to make. It makes me think of one of my favorite quotes. "How people treat you is their karma. How you react is yours". Hang in there *hugs to you*.

artiegf
11-11-2008, 09:02 PM
Thanks for all the support y'all! My friends at home are tired of hearing about the Ex and the Army. So I gotta get it out somewhere.

Freedomrider7
11-13-2008, 09:40 PM
Thanks for all the support y'all! My friends at home are tired of hearing about the Ex and the Army. So I gotta get it out somewhere.

I now understand your "I Confess" Posts completely! Sam's ex only tries to keep talking to him and stuff and it bugs me. It bugs me more because she refuses to talk to me, and he doesn't have the time to deal with her and it causes a bunch of problems between us. She better not be sending him dirty pictures! I wouldn't know if she was. When Sam and I first started dating he had an ex that kept sending him naked pictures and he told her that she was a b*tch and that I was 100 times more beautiful than she could ever dream of being. She left him alone after that.

Freedomrider7
11-13-2008, 10:09 PM
Well that is basically what I told her in an email from him.hehe. But until he does that face to face she wont stop. He just doesnt want trouble with his daughter. And hes a man and hasnt turned down porn in the 24 years of his life that I know of.:) It makes me mad but I look at it as cheap nasty pics that make her look pitiful. She gets to me in moments of weakness but in the end T. and I are stronger than that and if it is meant for us we will endure.

Lol yeah, men are men after all. We can only expect so much.

ChiefAD
11-13-2008, 10:36 PM
Lol yeah, men are men after all. We can only expect so much.

said the 17 year old with years of wisdom lol. You sound like an old broad lol

caliny
11-13-2008, 10:39 PM
Lol yeah, men are men after all. We can only expect so much.

Not to threadjack...But, yes, we CAN expect much. I understand that men are, by nature, more visual. However, by reducing our men (and men in general) to their base animal instincts, we're telling them that we simply don't expect anything better--from them or for us. How sad. How horribly destructive. I know plenty of good men who have been exposed to racy pics or porn and have rejected it. They've rejected it out of love and respect for their wives, their intendeds or simply for the dignity of all women. To simply throw up our hands, shrug, and say "oh well, that's the way men are" is hopeless, terribly emasculating and, perhaps, says more about how we view our own dignity and self-worth than it says about the nature of man.

*steps off soapbox* :)

Proud Mom
11-14-2008, 12:56 AM
said the 17 year old with years of wisdom lol. You sound like an old broad lol

Dont disrespect us Old Broads now....geesh....your gonna hurt my feelings

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 02:17 AM
said the 17 year old with years of wisdom lol. You sound like an old broad lol


Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy! What do you have against us old broads??? LOL...some of us still got it going on! I know Proud Mom does! She's seeeeexxxxxxxxyyyyyyy!:D

artiegf
11-14-2008, 02:44 AM
haha. old broads got it goin on

Proud Mom
11-14-2008, 02:45 AM
Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy! What do you have against us old broads??? LOL...some of us still got it going on! I know Proud Mom does! She's seeeeexxxxxxxxyyyyyyy!:D


Ax...go take your medicine dear....I am your average ok looking 48 year old.
Sexy went out the window years ago LOL

But...thanks!!! :D

artiegf
11-14-2008, 02:47 AM
total thread jack but you rock PM!

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 03:06 AM
***sniff, sniff***

Is that ThreadJacking I smell?????

Proud Mom
11-14-2008, 03:12 AM
total thread jack but you rock PM!

Thanks!! I can do head banging too LOL

And oh by the way

http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm247/DCBBLO/Smileys/hijacked.gif

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 03:58 AM
Not to threadjack...But, yes, we CAN expect much. I understand that men are, by nature, more visual. However, by reducing our men (and men in general) to their base animal instincts, we're telling them that we simply don't expect anything better--from them or for us. How sad. How horribly destructive. I know plenty of good men who have been exposed to racy pics or porn and have rejected it. They've rejected it out of love and respect for their wives, their intendeds or simply for the dignity of all women. To simply throw up our hands, shrug, and say "oh well, that's the way men are" is hopeless, terribly emasculating and, perhaps, says more about how we view our own dignity and self-worth than it says about the nature of man.


*steps off soapbox* :)


That's not at all what I meant. I'm sorry that's how you took it. My BF turns down nude pictures from other girls and if he didn't I wouldn't be with him. I meant that most men do think that way and do like receiving nude pictures, no matter who they're from. I know a lot of men that would turn them down in a heartbeat though. I hold my BF to very high standards, and I hold most of my guy friends to the same standards. I don't think that porn is a very acceptable thing, at least not when you are in a serious relationship and it is of someone besides your significant other.

I'm still not saying quite what I want to say. I'm extremely tired and can barely hold my eyes open. I'll have to come back tomorrow and try to explain. Point is, I didn't mean "just throw up your hands and say 'oh well, he's a man.'"

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 07:34 AM
That's not at all what I meant. I'm sorry that's how you took it. My BF turns down nude pictures from other girls and if he didn't I wouldn't be with him. I meant that most men do think that way and do like receiving nude pictures, no matter who they're from. I know a lot of men that would turn them down in a heartbeat though. I hold my BF to very high standards, and I hold most of my guy friends to the same standards. I don't think that porn is a very acceptable thing, at least not when you are in a serious relationship and it is of someone besides your significant other.

I'm still not saying quite what I want to say. I'm extremely tired and can barely hold my eyes open. I'll have to come back tomorrow and try to explain. Point is, I didn't mean "just throw up your hands and say 'oh well, he's a man.'"

Freedom,

Please let me say this before I go on…You are a sweet young lady…there is nothing wrong with being 17 or younger, you do just fine expressing yourself, you’re like me when I was young… sometimes I didn’t engage brain before I opened my mouth, it’s just your age and certainly nothing to be ashamed of! Please also understand it is not necessary to defend a statement that was said when you didn’t have brain engaged! We all say things at times in our lives such as you have said, I also have said such things, don’t let it bother you..kk. Like cali I also took meaning as she did. Had she not stepped up and said something I would have. Now let me also say this, I know you through your actions, and understand you are a young lady with standards, as have no problem standing up to those standards to set someone straight. Like cali I would also like to say this while we are on the subject… it is so easy to lower that bar we have set on these standards and so so difficult to move that bar back. It’s making comments like this around some guys, and how they perceive you, the silly things that you may not even think about, you know… such things as this even though you don’t mean it, us guys may understand it differently, so take head to what you say… for whatever you accept early in your relationship will set the tone for what he’ll think you will find acceptable in the future. food for thought ok!

Like me sometimes you take things a bit personal! Hell, there is nothing wrong with that either! Providing we learn from our experiences, hearing is natural (in this case reading) listening is a challenge that hampers all of us at times. Many times in live we are going to say things that we don’t mean, and even more so when we are younger!

I admire how you stand up for yourself, even when the odds are against you, it says much about your character. One thing I have learned in life, I would like to share with you… is this. You will find that everyone has an opinion on matters, it never hurts to listen, don’t allow your inner self to reject the thoughts of others or take offense to them as though they are a direct assault on you or your feelings or expressions.

I also think this forum is a great place to learn, some folks here may present themselves as being harsh, or say things that may hit home, keep in mind that may be their intend to get you to thinking outside the box. Some are thoughtful and considerate, some are not… such is life! Right! Not at all trying to gang up on you here by supporting what cali said at all, I think you know me better than that. If you ever have any questions or need a friend send her a PM I think you will agree she is a wonder lady, such as yourself, as many of the girls are.

You are with friends here Freedom, hang in there… we all love ya!....... :) hawk

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TJMAC77SP
11-14-2008, 01:21 PM
God, I love the title of this thread !!!!!!!!!!!!!

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 01:39 PM
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God, I love the title of this thread !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah, I love the title too… seriously though… the pics she can keep though….lmao

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TJMAC77SP
11-14-2008, 01:41 PM
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Yeah, I love the title too… seriously though… the pics she can keep though….lmao

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Images already burned into the brain huh????

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 01:48 PM
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Images already burned into the brain huh????

Not really… it the fear they might come back though… Worse than icky sticky nasty… :eek:

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CVal
11-14-2008, 01:49 PM
said the 17 year old with years of wisdom lol. You sound like an old broad lol

With all due respect to Ax and PM, I'm taking this as a compliment toward freedomrider. It indicates that she has gained wisdom in her short life that has taken others much longer to gain.

Second, I have to agree with Caliny. If we say men are governed by the "lower half" (thanks Arti!!) rather than their upper half, we lower our expectations for us and for them. I know I get a bit bent out of shape when men blame everything women do on PMS. Now, I realize that I indulge in stereotyping men from time to time (it's just sooo fun!!!) In fact, I will do it a bit later in this post.

As to the hotness or not of "old broads": I'm 48 and fat (yes, I said the "f" word) and I still get men wanting to "be" with me. OK, not as much as when I was younger and less fat, but ..... still.

As for the aforepromised stereotyping:





Now, if I were a man, I'd be wondering, "WHY DOES THIS GUY HAVE ALL THE WOMEN THROWING NEKKID PICTURES AT HIM AND WHERE CAN I MEET WOMEN LIKE THIS????"

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 01:58 PM
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With all due respect to Ax and PM, I'm taking this as a compliment toward freedomrider. It indicates that she has gained wisdom in her short life that has taken others much longer to gain.

Second, I have to agree with Caliny. If we say men are governed by the "lower half" (thanks Arti!!) rather than their upper half, we lower our expectations for us and for them. I know I get a bit bent out of shape when men blame everything women do on PMS. Now, I realize that I indulge in stereotyping men from time to time (it's just sooo fun!!!) In fact, I will do it a bit later in this post.

As to the hotness or not of "old broads": I'm 48 and fat (yes, I said the "f" word) and I still get men wanting to "be" with me. OK, not as much as when I was younger and less fat, but ..... still.

As for the aforepromised stereotyping:





Now, if I were a man, I'd be wondering, "WHY DOES THIS GUY HAVE ALL THE WOMEN THROWING NEKKID PICTURES AT HIM AND WHERE CAN I MEET WOMEN LIKE THIS????"

CVal… your wisdom never ceases to amaze me… dang girl… great words here….

maybe I spoke too soon :D :D

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CVal
11-14-2008, 02:11 PM
LOL. Thanks Hawk! Hey, I warned you about the stereotyping I was going to indulge in!!! Really, when it's friends just teasing each other and they all know it's in good fun, it can be ok. Sometimes.

And hey ~~ I didn't say all men would do that ~ I just said that if I were a man, I would say that!!

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 02:14 PM
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LOL. Thanks Hawk! Hey, I warned you about the stereotyping I was going to indulge in!!! Really, when it's friends just teasing each other and they all know it's in good fun, it can be ok. Sometimes.

And hey ~~ I didn't say all men would do that ~ I just said that if I were a man, I would say that!!

yeah...
I caught that... since we are just funning around... thought you would get a laugh... he he he :D

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axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 02:48 PM
With all due respect to Ax and PM, I'm taking this as a compliment toward freedomrider. It indicates that she has gained wisdom in her short life that has taken others much longer to gain.

Second, I have to agree with Caliny. If we say men are governed by the "lower half" (thanks Arti!!) rather than their upper half, we lower our expectations for us and for them. I know I get a bit bent out of shape when men blame everything women do on PMS. Now, I realize that I indulge in stereotyping men from time to time (it's just sooo fun!!!) In fact, I will do it a bit later in this post.

As to the hotness or not of "old broads": I'm 48 and fat (yes, I said the "f" word) and I still get men wanting to "be" with me. OK, not as much as when I was younger and less fat, but ..... still.

As for the aforepromised stereotyping:





Now, if I were a man, I'd be wondering, "WHY DOES THIS GUY HAVE ALL THE WOMEN THROWING NEKKID PICTURES AT HIM AND WHERE CAN I MEET WOMEN LIKE THIS????"

Doesn't that make you feel good?

For the longest time I had issue with my looks because of events that took place in the past with the ex.

It wasn't until recently that I became comfortable with how I look. And let me tell you it was a great thing when I finally realized that SEXY, is something that comes from within. It encompasses the personality, the attitude, the flirt, and the looks.

I get the second/third glances and men approaching me. In the past, I'd wonder what they were thinking, now I just say thank you (and if they are hot...Game ON!)

Okay, here's one: Ever seen a freakin' hot guy and then he opens his mouth and stupidity falls out? That's such a turn off, but an excellent example of looks only being able to take you so far.

CVal
11-14-2008, 06:23 PM
I like that phrase, Ax, "he opens his mouth and stupidity falls out."

Katnip
11-14-2008, 06:27 PM
Lol ya that's a great line! I knew a guy once who opened up his mouth and his ego fell out. Honestly he had such an ego that it sucked all of the oxygen right out of the room!

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 06:35 PM
Lol ya that's a great line! I knew a guy once who opened up his mouth and his ego fell out. Honestly he had such an ego that it sucked all of the oxygen right out of the room!


bwahahahahaha

Sgt Grandpa
11-14-2008, 06:52 PM
DON'T back down! Just because a battle was lost, doesn't mean the war is over. Fight for what you want.

OK, maybe a bit harsh; but the idea behind it is sane...( I am sane right?). Don't presume that he asked for the ics-pix. Maybe he was venting to her about the "issues" you two are having at the moment and she was attempting to take advantage of it.

As for the step away aspect; Have you BOTH tried to work it out, every way possible??

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 07:02 PM
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Lol ya that's a great line! I knew a guy once who opened up his mouth and his ego fell out. Honestly he had such an ego that it sucked all of the oxygen right out of the room!
Hell, you think that’s something, I knew a guy once thought he was a hawk… when he was really a dead horse…
Then the dead horse kicker came along and kicked him… and kicked him… till all his brains fell out, well… umm… what was left anyways… :eek: :eek:
Then there was these sharp objects punched in his eyes… :D :tongue:
Yeah… it was a horrible sight… he had nightmares for years and years… poor thing…



signed…:) kicked n blinded...dead horse

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hawk71049
11-14-2008, 07:08 PM
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wow... this slipped up on me...sorry...


So when do you step out gracefully and just say this is enough?
When and only when she puts her clothes on… Then and only then do you know it is over… Got that!
Don’t ever give up!
Never!
As long as she is sending Nakie Stick pictures you’re in the clear… hawk


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Proud Mom
11-14-2008, 08:55 PM
DO NOT give up and let the preying mantis win!!!

This is for you from me....I suggest you try it...you'll feel better hun

http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm247/DCBBLO/Nifty%20Things/slap.gif

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 09:02 PM
Not to threadjack...But, yes, we CAN expect much. I understand that men are, by nature, more visual. However, by reducing our men (and men in general) to their base animal instincts, we're telling them that we simply don't expect anything better--from them or for us. How sad. How horribly destructive. I know plenty of good men who have been exposed to racy pics or porn and have rejected it. They've rejected it out of love and respect for their wives, their intendeds or simply for the dignity of all women. To simply throw up our hands, shrug, and say "oh well, that's the way men are" is hopeless, terribly emasculating and, perhaps, says more about how we view our own dignity and self-worth than it says about the nature of man.

*steps off soapbox* :)
hmm majority right. Rarely do I see the p**n being avoided. sometimes just due to peer pressure. remember what you see and experience around him is different when he is with the fellas.

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 09:11 PM
With all due respect to Ax and PM, I'm taking this as a compliment toward freedomrider. It indicates that she has gained wisdom in her short life that has taken others much longer to gain.

Second, I have to agree with Caliny. If we say men are governed by the "lower half" (thanks Arti!!) rather than their upper half, we lower our expectations for us and for them. I know I get a bit bent out of shape when men blame everything women do on PMS. Now, I realize that I indulge in stereotyping men from time to time (it's just sooo fun!!!) In fact, I will do it a bit later in this post.

As to the hotness or not of "old broads": I'm 48 and fat (yes, I said the "f" word) and I still get men wanting to "be" with me. OK, not as much as when I was younger and less fat, but ..... still.

As for the aforepromised stereotyping:





Now, if I were a man, I'd be wondering, "WHY DOES THIS GUY HAVE ALL THE WOMEN THROWING NEKKID PICTURES AT HIM AND WHERE CAN I MEET WOMEN LIKE THIS????"


well its all about perspective. Moms have a more type of friendship with their daughters and Dads will be dads with theirs. I know love is a natural thing but if my daughter is 17 and is online and only focus is love than the books and her future goals; then I will have some concerns. That is all. I know about young love since I been there and know that about 98 percent of first loves are called first loves for a reason.

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 09:20 PM
cval and proud mom got me curious. so you better start posting pics or you going to have to do push ups! lol:eek:

like i said i'm just watchin...
PM has a nasty left hook, then there is that surprise right handed bitch slap...:eek:

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hawk71049
11-14-2008, 09:24 PM
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well its all about perspective. Moms have a more type of friendship with their daughters and Dads will be dads with theirs. I know love is a natural thing but if my daughter is 17 and is online and only focus is love than the books and her future goals; then I will have some concerns. That is all. I know about young love since I been there and know that about 98 percent of first loves are called first loves for a reason.

You know… my daughter was real close to me from birth to 5 or six… the was close to her mom up to about 14… then she was daddy girl…he he he :D

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ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 09:28 PM
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You know… my daughter was real close to me from birth to 5 or six… the was close to her mom up to about 14… then she was daddy girl…he he he :D

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Exactly and feeling clingy and safe with Daddy, then they leave and find someone that we dont like but is just like Dad lol

Proud Mom
11-14-2008, 09:30 PM
Ok....this is me and the Old Man and my son Boo

See your average 48 yr old woman. Her Old Man... I love calling him that. Isn't my son a cutie pie.

http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm247/DCBBLO/Gillfamily.jpg

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 09:30 PM
Well I think as we talk about those naked pics the more it makes me think not wanting to do this anymore. And so she sends them a third time! I am almost positive by his request this time since T. and I have been having some problems this week. I think its more than I want to handle at this time. I am threadjacking my own thread now. But T. seems to be acting out in some way I cant figure. So when do you step out gracefully and just say this is enough? That is the true question here. Nakie Stick might be the one who gets this round and maybe all the rest after this the way I am feeling today.

Never give up! If we gave up on everything that was just "more than we wanted to handle at the time" we'd never get very far. Believe me! In the last 4 months there have been many times where I thought it would be easier just to "give up" on all of this. The problem is that the easier way isn't always the best way. I know, sometimes going through stuff like this and putting up with is hard. When that girl called me and said she was Sam's Fiance, I just wanted to walk away and forget about. I'm glad I didn't, it turns out she stole his phone and he doesn't even know who she is and him and I are now closer than ever. Had I walked away it would have been a HUGE mistake, so don't give up just yet. You might lose something you don't REALLY want to lose. Also, you don't want to be the one who gave up, if someone has to give up let it be her!

Proud Mom
11-14-2008, 09:32 PM
Yeah...what she said!!! See, we all say the same thing so I guess your stuck with him hun....and don't assume anything...you know what they say about assume...makes as ass out of you and me

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 09:34 PM
Ok....this is me and the Old Man and my son Boo

See your average 48 yr old woman. Her Old Man... I love calling him that. Isn't my son a cutie pie.



yes, you really have used that spoon to death lol. You dont look your years maam.

Proud Mom
11-14-2008, 09:35 PM
yes, you really have used that spoon to death lol. You dont look your years maam.


Thanks...but I sure feel them some days LOL

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 09:36 PM
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Exactly and feeling clingy and safe with Daddy, then they leave and find someone that we dont like but is just like Dad lol

You know, I had to laugh here.... you are so right... they are still married too... I threw his ass (daughters husband, b/f at time) in a snow bank when he was 18, cause he shut my daughters bed room door, while he was in it:eek: :eek: ... going against the rules, his daddy was not too happy, he came over and his ass ended up in snow pile... what a freeking night.. Neighbor across the street was the chief of police, was funny as hell, when all was said and done...:D

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hawk71049
11-14-2008, 09:39 PM
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yes, you really have used that spoon to death lol. You dont look your years maam.


I don't know me thinks her spoon's ur sexy...:D :D

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ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 09:40 PM
At least she can write for a 17 year old. The way some young kids write today amaze me. Yo, man!! hit me up lol

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 09:41 PM
Ok....this is me and the Old Man and my son Boo

See your average 48 yr old woman. Her Old Man... I love calling him that. Isn't my son a cutie pie.

http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm247/DCBBLO/Gillfamily.jpg

Your son is very cute. Hey, my mom is 53, but doesn't look like it. My stepmom is 49, but also doesn't look like it. I'm not sure if I had a point...... lol Sorry

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 09:42 PM
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You know, I had to laugh here.... you are so right... they are still married too... I threw his ass (daughters husband, b/f at time) in a snow bank when he was 18, cause he shut my daughters bed room door, while he was in it:eek: :eek: ... going against the rules, his daddy was not too happy, he came over and his ass ended up in snow pile... what a freeking night.. Neighbor across the street was the chief of police, was funny as hell, when all was said and done...:D

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so you saying you locked yourself in her mom's room when you were younger?:D

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 09:43 PM
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awww... that a cute family pic..don't think i ever seen one as in family picture...

ok ok ok back to thread business...
look PM... this is the Naked Pics thread....:eek: :eek:
whats the deal here...:)



Ok....this is me and the Old Man and my son Boo

See your average 48 yr old woman. Her Old Man... I love calling him that. Isn't my son a cutie pie.

http://i298.photobucket.com/albums/mm247/DCBBLO/Gillfamily.jpg

Proud Mom
11-14-2008, 09:45 PM
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awww... that a cute family pic..don't think i ever seen one as in family picture...

ok ok ok back to thread business...
look PM... this is the Naked Pics thread....:eek: :eek:
whats the deal here...:)

LOL...sorry....you don't get to see the skin there hawk :tongue:

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 09:52 PM
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You know, I had to laugh here.... you are so right... they are still married too... I threw his ass (daughters husband, b/f at time) in a snow bank when he was 18, cause he shut my daughters bed room door, while he was in it:eek: :eek: ... going against the rules, his daddy was not too happy, he came over and his ass ended up in snow pile... what a freeking night.. Neighbor across the street was the chief of police, was funny as hell, when all was said and done...:D

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Haha
Hawk, picturing you doing this made me bust out laughing. My dad would do the EXACT same thing. Sam's too afraid of my dad already, he hasn't met him yet, so he would never even think of breaking one of his rules especially inside my dad's own house. I'm probably going to have to blindfold Sam in order to get him to meet my dad. When Sam and I started dating my dad got really mad and Sam has that ground into his memory. I've been talking to my dad recently about Sam, but I'm not really sure what he thinks. I'm kinda afraid to find out.

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 09:54 PM
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so you saying you locked yourself in her mom's room when you were younger?:D
Nah… she hated hawks… I had two hawks in my bedroom… and a great horned owl... (flew these birds of prey since I was 5/6) and they don’t appreciate her… they were constantly batting(flying or jumping of perch) had Jessie attached to perch… scared the hell out of her x-wife… wished they would have gotten their talons in her…:)


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ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 09:55 PM
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Nah… she hated hawks… I had two hawks in my bedroom… and a great horned owl... (flew these birds of prey since I was 5/6) and they don’t appreciate her… they were constantly batting(flying or jumping of perch) had Jessie attached to perch… scared the hell out of her x-wife… wished they would have gotten their talons in her…:)


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OK. I got my retard glasses on this one lol I am from New York City so my mind works slower but I speak faster lol

Ok, I guess you are called hawk because you actually owned hawks and you live in Logansport, LA. I googled 71049 lmaof

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 09:57 PM
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Haha
Hawk, picturing you doing this made me bust out laughing. My dad would do the EXACT same thing. Sam's too afraid of my dad already, he hasn't met him yet, so he would never even think of breaking one of his rules especially inside my dad's own house. I'm probably going to have to blindfold Sam in order to get him to meet my dad. When Sam and I started dating my dad got really mad and Sam has that ground into his memory. I've been talking to my dad recently about Sam, but I'm not really sure what he thinks. I'm kinda afraid to find out.

Let's see do you have snow in your area... he he he
and the answer is no!!... bedroom door stays closed... got it! Now I know what to watch out for the old masked ranger trick too. So, you better be good!...:D

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hawk71049
11-14-2008, 10:07 PM
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OK. I got my retard glasses on this one lol I am from New York City so my mind works slower but I speak faster lol

Ok, I guess you are called hawk because you actually owned hawks and you live in Logansport, LA. I googled 71049 lamof


I think I read that somewhere... I was born on a farm... just outside a small town south west of Chicago, called DeKalb Illinois... actually even a smaller town, called Cortland Illinois... yeah... CVal and me are home town folks... just may not claim me.... but oh well.... thats what ya get for being a hawk... :)

No one ever owns hawks, one must join their world, not them yours, I am also half Indian… Re Screen name, regarding the numbers after my name… was the b-date of my first g/f… she died of a brain tumor…. Have always used those numbers when it comes to stuff…. Actually I was called hawk as a kid, but did not associate with the name till going through boot camp @ Pendelton... and that is where I was got tagged... hawk… and it’s a long story…lol

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artiegf
11-14-2008, 10:09 PM
great advice from the guys and PM! I wanna give up because its so darn stressful and I keep thinking why put myself through more? Yet after an afternoon with my boss today I have been thinkging that I will keep at this. My boss and I have a pretty open work relationship and so we got to talking about this whole situation and he thought that with all the stress my soldier is under in afghanistan and the stress from nakiestick he is just acting out in the only way he can think. He suggested I just hang on and try and see where all this goes. He thought once he got home it would settle itself out. So I am going to try. Of course I did voice my disapproval of the pics to him and he knows how I feel. Not sure why he cant give them up and not fall into her traps. ( by the way she asked for money again after the 3rd set of pics) So I havent heard from him today and considering the last week I have heard from him about 20 times at least that is odd. Of course he might be sleeping and I did hear from him last night so not too worried.

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 10:10 PM
LOL...sorry....you don't get to see the skin there hawk :tongue:

Oh, I remember my point! My was, that you don't look 48, you look younger than that.

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:11 PM
sorry to hear about your ex. that is a nice homage to her. but said to hear you were a Hollywood Marine. I went the way of Parris Island. I was nicknamed horse lol

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:13 PM
great advice from the guys and PM! I wanna give up because its so darn stressful and I keep thinking why put myself through more? Yet after an afternoon with my boss today I have been thinkging that I will keep at this. My boss and I have a pretty open work relationship and so we got to talking about this whole situation and he thought that with all the stress my soldier is under in afghanistan and the stress from nakiestick he is just acting out in the only way he can think. He suggested I just hang on and try and see where all this goes. He thought once he got home it would settle itself out. So I am going to try. Of course I did voice my disapproval of the pics to him and he knows how I feel. Not sure why he cant give them up and not fall into her traps. ( by the way she asked for money again after the 3rd set of pics) So I havent heard from him today and considering the last week I have heard from him about 20 times at least that is odd. Of course he might be sleeping and I did hear from him last night so not too worried.


Women are from mars?? I just think if the same thing was happening to a man and his woman was in Iraq; only like 2 people might know about this. I see women spread their biz like no other lol They always said; a woman scorn.... lol

Artief, are you going on Maury tomorrow? lol just teasing.

artiegf
11-14-2008, 10:17 PM
I am in huge trouble if T. ever read this thread! He said he wants our business ours.hehe. I said ok honey I totally understand *the nervous look at the ground and the fingers crossed*

But women gotta vocalize and not internalize

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:18 PM
I bet T's name is Dave lol but way to go there with the honesty and mutual respect!! dont get mad if he violates general order #1 lol

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 10:20 PM
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Let's see do you have snow in your area... he he he
and the answer is no!!... bedroom door stays closed... got it! Now I know what to watch out for the old masked ranger trick too. So, you better be good!...:D

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I don't have a lot of snow in my area, there is more where my dad lives though. I don't think my dad is quite big enough to throw Sam into a snow pile though. My dad is 5'11 and Sam is 6'3. My dad is pretty fit, but Sam is in the Army so....

Ok I'm confused here.. "and the answer is no!!... bedroom door stays closed... got it!" I'm always good when around my daddy. He's never spanked me or anything, but I hate seeing him disappointed in me, it kills me. My dad and I use to be very close, I miss that a lot.

We're all threadjacking. :eek: I'm sorry...

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 10:21 PM
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sorry to hear about your ex. that is a nice homage to her. but said to hear you were a Hollywood Marine. I went the way of Parris Island. I was nicknamed horse lol

yeah, well don't tell ax... or you be dead kicked horse:eek: ... then there is that damn wip thing... and no the lady that died of cancer was not wife, was g/f before that... sorry....:D

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ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:23 PM
hmmm im 5'11" and threw alot of guys taller than me into the dirt lol. but hey I am Army/Marine trained lol

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 10:29 PM
I am in huge trouble if T. ever read this thread! He said he wants our business ours.hehe. I said ok honey I totally understand *the nervous look at the ground and the fingers crossed*

But women gotta vocalize and not internalize

Haha I know the feeling! Sam doesn't like me talking about private things on here, but he knows that I write on the "I confess" forum because he has read most of my confessions. Hopefully he will never find this site, but if he does I know he wont really get mad. He'll roll his eyes and tell me he's going to get me and I'll probably end up being tickled to death. Pretty painful way to die! lol j/k

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 10:31 PM
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I don't have a lot of snow in my area, there is more where my dad lives though. I don't think my dad is quite big enough to throw Sam into a snow pile though. My dad is 5'11 and Sam is 6'3. My dad is pretty fit, but Sam is in the Army so....

Ok I'm confused here.. "and the answer is no!!... bedroom door stays closed... got it!" I'm always good when around my daddy. He's never spanked me or anything, but I hate seeing him disappointed in me, it kills me. My dad and I use to be very close, I miss that a lot.

We're all threadjacking. :eek: I'm sorry...
Confused? You said you would have to blind fold him… I was referring to the Lone Ranger… ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxIuIxqo2So)...probably before your time…
Well your dad has him psyched out, that all that counts… Besides it’s all about attitude, and determination….

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Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 10:33 PM
hmmm im 5'11" and threw alot of guys taller than me into the dirt lol. but hey I am Army/Marine trained lol

Lol see? That's my point. My dad has thrown many guys in the dirt who were taller than him, but he was also younger than and they weren't trained military.

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:33 PM
is that a hawk/tonto joke?

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 10:36 PM
alrightie then....this thread is now totally "thread jacked"

and I must say I'm impressed that the jacking involves not one but several new topics.

That's a record!

By the way, ....never mind...

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 10:37 PM
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is that a hawk/tonto joke?
That a hawk...LQ joke... :D

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Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 10:37 PM
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Confused? You said you would have to blind fold him… I was referring to the Lone Ranger… ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxIuIxqo2So)...probably before your time…
Well your dad has him psyched out, that all that counts… Besides it’s all about attitude, and determination….

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Lol oh. I know who the Long Ranger is! I love watching that show. I've bought a lot of the old episodes. I wish the shows that are on TV today were more like that. I don't watch much TV. I'm highly addicted to Smallville though! I also like Heroes, CSI, and rescue me. Though Rescue Me is a bit twisted if you ask me.

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:40 PM
Lol oh. I know who the Long Ranger is! I love watching that show. I've bought a lot of the old episodes. I wish the shows that are on TV today were more like that. I don't watch much TV. I'm highly addicted to Smallville though! I also like Heroes, CSI, and rescue me. Though Rescue Me is a bit twisted if you ask me.

Finally something you said I like. I love Rescue Me. A little Raunchy for prime time tv but its an awesome show.

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 10:40 PM
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alrightie then....this thread is now totally "thread jacked"

and I must say I'm impressed that the jacking involves not one but several new topics.

That's a record!

By the way, ....never mind...



ok... the never mind is a good sign... to either duck or get the hell out of dodge...

sorry artiegf this is your thread, and what we are doing may be silly and funny, was kinda hoping you enjoy funnies...
you will be ok... things will work out and don't you dare think about leaving us...:D
be safe.... hawk

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Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 10:44 PM
alrightie then....this thread is now totally "thread jacked"

and I must say I'm impressed that the jacking involves not one but several new topics.

That's a record!

By the way, ....never mind...



I just made it worse by talking about TV shows.....

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:46 PM
I am on a mission now lol
http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f252/signalwarrant/black_hawk_down_ver2.jpg

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 10:49 PM
Finally something you said I like. I love Rescue Me. A little Raunchy for prime time tv but its an awesome show.

Yeah, well you said something earlier that I actually liked for once. You said that at least I can write for a 17 year old. I HATE that people my age seem to think that proper English is over rated. I personally think their slang is over rated and I hate it. Half the time I don't understand what the heck they're saying.

And yes, Rescue Me is a bit raunchy for prime time TV.

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 10:49 PM
What is your mission?

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:51 PM
secret lol

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 10:53 PM
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Lol oh. I know who the Long Ranger is! I love watching that show. I've bought a lot of the old episodes. I wish the shows that are on TV today were more like that. I don't watch much TV. I'm highly addicted to Smallville though! I also like Heroes, CSI, and rescue me. Though Rescue Me is a bit twisted if you ask me.

Ok ok, do you have the lost episodes?

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hawk71049
11-14-2008, 10:54 PM
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What is your mission?

she rides a horse called Freedom....:)

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ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 10:59 PM
Artieg, you sure look familiar. do you have a full length of you ;) what is nakie stick? another name for horse? lol

I didnt think the caliber of posters will be above 7. My compliments.

I am a 5 on a good day but not afraid to admit it.

artiegf
11-14-2008, 11:04 PM
haha. sorry the pic of nakie stick(ax is the one who came up with that) is the one that is huge. I couldnt make her smaller.

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 11:09 PM
Artiegf, You are much prettier than her!

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 11:09 PM
wow you two look alike.

artiegf
11-14-2008, 11:10 PM
Thanks guys! who knew this thread would turn into 15 pages. Arent ya glad I came along?

Freedomrider7
11-14-2008, 11:11 PM
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Ok ok, do you have the lost episodes?

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I don't think so.

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 11:11 PM
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Artiegf, You are much prettier than her!

ok Freedom, did ax, share that pic with you....?
fess up...:)

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hawk71049
11-14-2008, 11:12 PM
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I don't think so.
you were suppose to say what episodes.... silly...:)

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hawk71049
11-14-2008, 11:14 PM
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Thanks guys! who knew this thread would turn into 15 pages. Arent ya glad I came along?

OH yeah.... and don't even think about hitting the trail....:)

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artiegf
11-14-2008, 11:14 PM
I think she might have more of a butt, couldnt really tell because that wasnt exactly what she was showin, close though. She is the praying mantis type and I am a Marilyn.

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 11:14 PM
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Well, cut her off at the head and show what you have... you know what they say about head...:D
and yeah... well ummm.... you are a cutie... :)
And no you certainly don't look like anyone I know... he he he

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see hawk you proved my point. always getting compliments from the ones I shouldnt receive. Its like the blind woman saying that you are hot lol

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 11:18 PM
well here is eye candy for you ladies lol

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&VideoID=18161423

hawk71049
11-14-2008, 11:19 PM
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I think she might have more of a butt, couldnt really tell because that wasnt exactly what she was showin, close though. She is the praying mantis type and I am a Marilyn.


don't care anything about butt shots:eek:
you know what they say... every one has one...:D
hey... every body we got a pic of what's her name....
down there on post #138...
check it out....
wow... oh yeah you got her beat by a long shot...:D


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hawk71049
11-14-2008, 11:22 PM
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see hawk you proved my point. always getting compliments from the ones I shouldnt receive. Its like the blind woman saying that you are hot lol
sorry don't know much about the blind ones... I holly wood Marine...:D

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axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 11:23 PM
see hawk you proved my point. always getting compliments from the ones I shouldnt receive. Its like the blind woman saying that you are hot lol



ROFLMAO!! I thought the same thing!

artiegf
11-14-2008, 11:28 PM
Thanks LQ. I love them Marines. and if anyone tells T. I said that I will tak'em down. :)

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 11:36 PM
lol oh ok. I sure miss my marine days when I was in shape. before and after



http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f252/signalwarrant/MCMAP1.jpg

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 11:40 PM
hawk, you look awesome man

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f252/signalwarrant/simplejack.jpg

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 11:40 PM
**wolf whistles**

oooooooooooooooooooooo YUMMY!!!!

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 11:43 PM
**wolf whistles**




oooooooooooooooooooooo YUMMY!!!!

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f252/signalwarrant/simplejack.jpg

I knew you be a hit brother lol

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 11:46 PM
lol oh ok. I sure miss my marine days when I was in shape. before and after










**wolf whistles**





oooooooooooooooooooooo YUMMY!!!!



Oh nooooooooooooooooooo BABY That was for YOU!!!! LOL:D :eek: :rolleyes:

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 11:48 PM
wow. Can I awooo for you too? lol thank you.

The female consensus here is that you are above a 10 lol

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 11:49 PM
wow. Can I awooo for you too? lol thank you.

The female consensus here is that you are above a 10 lol


I don't know. I've never rated myself. But it seems you and I have the same problem....people of the same gender as us are rating us. LOL

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 11:55 PM
UMMMMM....I think those shorts need to move a bit higher up.


Oops did I just say that out loud??? LOL

artiegf
11-14-2008, 11:55 PM
yummy LQ !

ChiefAD
11-14-2008, 11:58 PM
UMMMMM....I think those shorts need to move a bit higher up.


Oops did I just say that out loud??? LOL

This is a rated-g forum lol. email is for mature audiences lol

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-14-2008, 11:59 PM
This is a rated-g forum lol. email is for mature audiences lol


OMG....LOL!!! I like your humor!

axscntU8_Dpstv
11-15-2008, 12:08 AM
ok as long as you dont put an ax in my back lol


No, just the whip!

Freedomrider7
11-15-2008, 01:48 AM
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you were suppose to say what episodes.... silly...:)

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Oh. What episodes? lol And no, she did not send me those pictures. For some reason I do have a lot of guy friends who find it necessary to send me pictures of their girlfriends so I can give my opinion. I just wish they would send me "G" rated picture! Boys....

artiegf
11-15-2008, 02:06 AM
Well no worries about Nakie Stick. T. just wrote me a dump email. Said he was done. Said he wrote to those girls on myspace to see if I would get into his accounts even when he told me not to. Except he did tell me to. Just not the ones that he would be doing something he wasnt supposed to. geeeeeez a girl can get so confused. told me not to write him again, well at least until he cooled down. now how am i supposed to know that when he is in freakin BFE? Funny though he locked me out of my own account that I set up for him and I. That was the first place I was going to delete delete delete. Gotta revoke nudie pic rights. He did keep all the passwords to his banks the same so if all else I can go get myself something pretty* she says with an evil scorned woman laugh* Anyway. Thats the end of this thread and it was a good one too. Exartiegf

hawk71049
11-15-2008, 03:30 AM
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Oh. What episodes? lol


And no, she did not send me those pictures. For some reason I do have a lot of guy friends who find it necessary to send me pictures of their girlfriends so I can give my opinion. I just wish they would send me "G" rated picture! Boys....

That's why they call them lost...lol

dang... looks like poor artiegf may not make it... what a shame...

that's crazy... them sending you x-rated pics...
heck go to e-bay and auction them off...lol:D

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CVal
11-15-2008, 03:32 AM
Holey macaroni!!! I go away for a few hours and what happens??? This dang thread DOUBLES in size!!! You windbags, you!! ;)

hawk71049
11-15-2008, 03:34 AM
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Holey macaroni!!! I go away for a few hours and what happens??? This dang thread DOUBLES in size!!! You windbags, you!! ;)

yea... you missed quite a show... we had all kinds of fun...; he he he:D

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CVal
11-15-2008, 03:40 AM
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I think I read that somewhere... I was born on a farm... just outside a small town south west of Chicago, called DeKalb Illinois... actually even a smaller town, called Cortland Illinois... yeah... CVal and me are home town folks... just may not claim me.... but oh well.... thats what ya get for being a hawk... :)

No one ever owns hawks, one must join their world, not them yours, I am also half Indian… Re Screen name, regarding the numbers after my name… was the b-date of my first g/f… she died of a brain tumor…. Have always used those numbers when it comes to stuff…. Actually I was called hawk as a kid, but did not associate with the name till going through boot camp @ Pendelton... and that is where I was got tagged... hawk… and it’s a long story…lol

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Don't worry, Hawk, I'll claim you! <note for the others ~ I was born and raised in northern Illinois and currently live there. I also went to college in DeKalb. So Hawk and I do have that connection. Nope, we were there at different times.>

Freedomrider7
11-15-2008, 03:42 AM
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That's why they call them lost...lol

dang... looks like poor artiegf may not make it... what a shame...

that's crazy... them sending you x-rated pics...
heck go to e-bay and auction them off...lol:D

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The poor girls don't know that their bf's send me these pictures and I don't want to hurt them. One of my guy friends sent me a picture of himself when Sam and I first started dating and I sent it to another friend to get back at him and Sam threatened to pound him into the ground. He hasn't done it since.... Thank God!

hawk71049
11-15-2008, 03:56 AM
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The poor girls don't know that their bf's send me these pictures and I don't want to hurt them. One of my guy friends sent me a picture of himself when Sam and I first started dating and I sent it to another friend to get back at him:eek: :eek: :eek: :) and Sam threatened to pound him into the ground. He hasn't done it since.... Thank God!

OMG, your kidding... this has been one hell of a night for an old fart like me, I laughed so much I cried!

are you kidding me, what happened then? Are they still buddies... You are a stinker...:D

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Freedomrider7
11-15-2008, 04:03 AM
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OMG, your kidding... this has been one hell of a night for an old fart like me, I laughed so much I cried!

are you kidding me, what happened then? Are they still buddies... You are a stinker...:D

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Lol No, I am not kidding you. Yes, we are still friends and I like to make fun of him sometimes for it. When you've seen a picture like that of someone it's very easy to make fun of them, well normally it is. Yes, I am a stinker. I got into a lot of trouble because he thought he'd send me that picture! My mom opened the text message before I did and then Sam was pissed. I didn't even do anything wrong! My mom use to think he (my friend) was a nice young man, not so much anymore.

hawk71049
11-15-2008, 04:32 AM
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You better put on some weight their big guy...
I know eat some more of the breakfast of champions...
Your going to need em... :D
Oh and btw... you are wearing out those pictures you post on every other thread, then change back to pictures like this one...
btw I stayed in the Marines...
Not bragging, I am close to 60... 6' + 270lbs and can still out do your ass....:D
I don't need to go on a mission to do it either...
or flash pics... all over forum...:)
Besides if I were to take you up on your crazy ass challenge, my dumb ass would be in jail for destruction of gov't property...
The most dangerous thing in the world is a Army WO-1...with a map and a compass on a mission, the second most dangerous is one that was transferred from the Marines to the Army, just in case you can't remember, the Claymore is pointed towards you.

It's red tail to you...he he he :D



I am on a mission now lol
http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f252/signalwarrant/black_hawk_down_ver2.jpg



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gandemedj
11-15-2008, 06:05 AM
Gosh darn it, I work on a Friday evening on VPN and this is what happens?! Ax and LQ are flirting, Proud Mom is more like Hot Mom, LQ and Hawk are having some sort of pissing contest I don't get, and pictures go up and come down before I get to see them!!!

And Artiegf is now (not)Artiegf?!

Too much for me. I'm heading for the wine.

hawk71049
11-15-2008, 06:31 AM
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Gosh darn it, I work on a Friday evening on VPN and this is what happens?! Ax and LQ are flirting, Proud Mom is more like Hot Mom, LQ and Hawk are having some sort of pissing contest I don't get, and pictures go up and come down before I get to see them!!!

And Artiegf is now (not)Artiegf?!

Too much for me. I'm heading for the wine.

Well now, not sure about the LQ n AX thingie, seems like there may be a proposal in there, need to talk to artiegf... he he he But who knows stay tuned in for the latest episode of as the forum turns… Yeah LQ n I are having a nice day, we likes to fun around after a hard days work...:D

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ChiefAD
11-15-2008, 09:09 AM
Gotta revoke nudie pic rights. Exartiegf

some guys got all the luck. never had privileges or experiences like that :( lol

ChiefAD
11-15-2008, 09:15 AM
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You better put on some weight their big guy...
I know eat some more of the breakfast of champions...
Your going to need em... :D
Oh and btw... you are wearing out those pictures you post on every other thread, then change back to pictures like this one...
btw I stayed in the Marines...
Not bragging, I am close to 60... 6' + 270lbs and can still out do your ass....:D
I don't need to go on a mission to do it either...
or flash pics... all over forum...:)
Besides if I were to take you up on your crazy ass challenge, my dumb ass would be in jail for destruction of gov't property...
The most dangerous thing in the world is a Army WO-1...with a map and a compass on a mission, the second most dangerous is one that was transferred from the Marines to the Army, just in case you can't remember, the Claymore is pointed towards you.

It's red tail to you...he he he :D





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lol hooah. you just lack the walk the walk part lol. The bigger they are??? :D

I am over 200lbs as well but I do have to stay within weight guidelines. Just enjoy the civvie life and keep on blowing up.

artiegf
11-15-2008, 12:36 PM
Gande you did miss a crazy night! And yup as I post now we are still broken up which might me the longest he has ever stayed mad at me so who knows might be for good. I can only imagine the hay day Nakie Stick had last night. I am sure it was the best cyber night of her life. She can lick the leftovers and throw herself at him. I am a dignified woman that just got right into my email address black book and emailed my favorite sgt first class that I had to give up just to put up with months of BS from an E4 that had the most wicked baby mamma ever! So I say to everyone out there. I am still gonne post on here because its too damn fun and Artiegf is gonna be just fine. Let the games begin!!!

artiegf
11-15-2008, 12:37 PM
some guys got all the luck. never had privileges or experiences like that :( lol

OH and LQ you just never dated a woman like me :)

ChiefAD
11-15-2008, 01:39 PM
Gande you did miss a crazy night! And yup as I post now we are still broken up which might me the longest he has ever stayed mad at me so who knows might be for good. I can only imagine the hay day Nakie Stick had last night. I am sure it was the best cyber night of her life. She can lick the leftovers and throw herself at him. I am a dignified woman that just got right into my email address black book and emailed my favorite sgt first class that I had to give up just to put up with months of BS from an E4 that had the most wicked baby mamma ever! So I say to everyone out there. I am still gonne post on here because its too damn fun and Artiegf is gonna be just fine. Let the games begin!!!
luckily for warrants, we dont provide drama just action. Artie, his lost. Let him go. If you take him back, then he has you by the noose.

CrustySMSgt
11-15-2008, 10:10 PM
Ax...go take your medicine dear....I am your average ok looking 48 year old.
Sexy went out the window years ago LOL

But...thanks!!! :D


Sexy ain't all about looks... it's about attitude and confidence. PM's got it going on!!

(WTF happened to this thread... roflmao; I've got 12 pages to catch up on)

artiegf
11-15-2008, 10:12 PM
crusty it went nuts last night spreading like wild fire but mostly i think there was a thread jack or two in there

Freedomrider7
11-15-2008, 10:18 PM
crusty it went nuts last night spreading like wild fire but mostly i think there was a thread jack or two in there

Lol I'm 110% guilty of this....... :D

CrustySMSgt
11-15-2008, 10:21 PM
As to the hotness or not of "old broads": I'm 48 and fat (yes, I said the "f" word) and I still get men wanting to "be" with me. OK, not as much as when I was younger and less fat, but ..... still.



"be" with you... I don't get it What do you mean? :confused: :tongue:

Most men don't really want Barbie... they are most often a pain in the ass. "Average" is a state of mind. Work what you've got and men will notice.

CrustySMSgt
11-15-2008, 10:27 PM
Doesn't that make you feel good?

For the longest time I had issue with my looks because of events that took place in the past with the ex.

It wasn't until recently that I became comfortable with how I look. And let me tell you it was a great thing when I finally realized that SEXY, is something that comes from within. It encompasses the personality, the attitude, the flirt, and the looks.

I get the second/third glances and men approaching me. In the past, I'd wonder what they were thinking, now I just say thank you (and if they are hot...Game ON!)

Okay, here's one: Ever seen a freakin' hot guy and then he opens his mouth and stupidity falls out? That's such a turn off, but an excellent example of looks only being able to take you so far.


EXACTLY! I knew a gal who had a long relationship with a controlling guy who used talking her down as a weapon to keep her from looking elsewhere. She was a mess and it took a long time for her to realize there was nothing wrong with her.

gandemedj
11-15-2008, 10:31 PM
"Ever seen a freakin' hot guy and then he opens his mouth and stupidity falls out? That's such a turn off, but an excellent example of looks only being able to take you so far. "

I don't know where/when this Ax-ism is from, but I love it!

CrustySMSgt
11-15-2008, 10:40 PM
Yeah, well you said something earlier that I actually liked for once. You said that at least I can write for a 17 year old. I HATE that people my age seem to think that proper English is over rated. I personally think their slang is over rated and I hate it. Half the time I don't understand what the heck they're saying.


That's great! Keep it up... even my 14 year old drives me nuts... seems like most kids are too lazy to worry about spelling and grammer... and throwing in text lingo makes it worse!

Freedomrider7
11-15-2008, 11:21 PM
That's great! Keep it up... even my 14 year old drives me nuts... seems like most kids are too lazy to worry about spelling and grammer... and throwing in text lingo makes it worse!

I will admit that I do use ext lingo, but mostly only in texts and I don't use a lot of it. I do use lol and OMG on here though.

Bleedblue
11-19-2008, 01:16 AM
ummm...lets see, how about no more e-mail from her, just use the phone. so you need a new e-mail or block her.
then, how about recording the phone conversations, take them to a lawyer and file for harrassment and get full custody.

Ash_o413
11-23-2008, 08:19 PM
YES!!!! i know how that feels!!!! my fiance's ex does exactly the same thing. They have a one year old together, and she has such low respect that even though he tells her to stop trying, she still goes ahead and tries. She will see him before i do this coming thanksgiving and christmas because i don't live at the hometown no more, but he told me that she has already even told him what she wants to do to him. I don't want to continue talking about her because i'm positive that everyone will think of her real sleezy. But either way i know how that feels and i ignore her. But it also scares me because my fiance tells me how much "he needs to have sexual intercourse" and that the only person that he's scared of seeing is her, because they went through so much together. Imagine how i felt when i heard that!

artiegf
11-23-2008, 08:33 PM
I can imagine and the bf that I wrote this about broke up with me because he felt smothered and I got into too many of his emails and responded back to her pics. We are working on things. And I am going to just see where things go. You are right it is horrible to feel like you have no control over what she is doing. And well at least he is being honest about his weakness for her. If you know it you can be prepared for it. But its still a horrible feeling. There are women out there that feel they have to manipulate someone to keep them. I guess what I have to say to that is what a pitiful existance they are living and thank goodness I have more respect for myself than to con someone into loving me.

CrustySMSgt
11-23-2008, 09:24 PM
I will admit that I do use ext lingo, but mostly only in texts and I don't use a lot of it. I do use lol and OMG on here though.

I don't mind that; I can usually figure that out... it is the blatant (and constant) failure to care enough to spell properly, compose sentences, and follow basic rules of grammar... I'm all for relying on spell check to bail me out when I'm in a hurry... but that doesn't alleviate the responsibility to learn to do it right.

Freedomrider7
11-23-2008, 10:40 PM
I don't mind that; I can usually figure that out... it is the blatant (and constant) failure to care enough to spell properly, compose sentences, and follow basic rules of grammar... I'm all for relying on spell check to bail me out when I'm in a hurry... but that doesn't alleviate the responsibility to learn to do it right.

I'm always correcting people my age on their grammar. They hate me for it, but it really bugs me when then don't use proper grammar.

artiegf
12-17-2008, 03:50 PM
Update on Nakie Stick..... I talked to T. the other morning and he told me that those same pics she sent him three times were also sent to one of his good friends at a different FOB in Afghanistan and a guy at his own FOB! So he wasnt feeling so special... There should be more coming soon since she is overdrawn in her account and just asked him for money. Thats my bet. sigh. In the last few weeks I find myself feeling so much better that I dont have to deal with that anymore as a gf only as an outsider looking in laughing my ass off as to how much of a mess he has made of his stuff. ok ok I am not that mean but it does make me smile that she sent those around the FOB. (It saved me the trouble)

artiegf
12-17-2008, 06:06 PM
No PM he didnt seem surprised but maybe it was what he needed to realize that he isnt all that... yes bless the penile driven young man. that makes me laugh! Well its just not looking too good for us. He sent flowers to the new girl at work. I never got flowers at work while he was over there even after all the middle of the night calls and doing so much for him when he asked. Of course he paid alot of my bills and sent me jewelry but no flowers. hohum. He sent the other girl a bubble bath gram with all sorts of smell good stuff. Not sure why I got the role of surrogate wife and skipped the whole courting thing. Of course there is a big difference between me and these girls... he was in my home and in my bed and I did get flowers then and I did get weeks of dates. So I guess this is the best he can do considering he is playing mountain man right now. ( and no I am not being nice right now) I am torn. I talked to him last night and he and I were so flat to eachother. I guess I will save the rest for a PM since the whole world reads this. sigh. I am just feeling kinda blah today.

Proud Mom
12-17-2008, 06:34 PM
(((((HUGS))))) to you sweet pea...pm when your up to it

MACHINE666
01-09-2009, 01:37 PM
Anyone on here have to deal with your bf's ex spouse or girlfriend like I do? She still wants him back so she sends him emails with naked pics of herself. And when he calls to talk to his daughter she talks dirty to him. I guess she figures she can lure him back with his loins.... little does she know I got that covered thank you very much! Anyway, he has told her not to send them but she does anyway, I have his email passwords and he has told me I can check his email anytime I want he has nothing to hide. Its just kinda upsetting to read her emails to him telling how much she loves him still and why cant he just come back to her. Also the pics.uggh. Somedays I can ignore it but other days its unbearable. He cant ignore her completely because they have a daughter together. So she is with us for life I am afraid unless she magically combusts. Sorry that is so unChristian like but gosh its not like its not hard enough to be dealing with deployment but to have to deal with her crud is hard. She sends him nasty emails also and it upsets him. I dont want her taking his mind from his job.

Do you still have the pics and what is your e-mail account?

:D :D :D :D :D

TJMAC77SP
01-09-2009, 01:41 PM
Ok, I will admit it........I keep coming back to this thread because of the title.

Measure Man
01-09-2009, 01:45 PM
Ok, I will admit it........I keep coming back to this thread because of the title.

I'm busted too...

artiegf
01-09-2009, 04:10 PM
Hey guys! Its the author of the original post here. :) Yeah this thread did take on a life of its own. As you read the ex is still sending pics but as last reported she dispersed them to three other guys in his unit. lol. So all y'all gotta do is be lucky enough to be at T.'s FOB and you got yourself some Nakie Stick pics. Free of charge. lmao. You know naked pics to soldiers is far more common than just this isolated incident. Its risky but I suppose with the number of deployments so many of our guys are going through and the accessability of computers now days it makes it easy to snap a pic and send it on. I admit I have sent them and also made hard copies for the carepackage. It was scarier to go to Walmart to print the damn things than it was to put them on the computer. Of course I am not running for the Presidency or anything so I dont have as much to lose.

Proud Mom
01-10-2009, 10:14 PM
Do you still have the pics and what is your e-mail account?

:D :D :D :D :D


Ok, I will admit it........I keep coming back to this thread because of the title.


I'm busted too...

Awww this is just too cute....we have such cutie pies on the forum. It makes this Grandma want to bake cookies to send you. ~pinching cheeks~ such cute boys on here :D :tongue:

MACHINE666
01-13-2009, 09:47 AM
Cookies and naked pics. Even better!

:D :D :D :D :D

artiegf
01-13-2009, 03:24 PM
Cookies and naked pics. Even better!

:D :D :D :D :D
Do you want some milk with that boys?? :)

vesper29
01-23-2009, 09:35 PM
yeah i went home to visit my boyfriend's family and it just so happens that the freaking ex-wife lives next door to his mom's...how fun

artiegf
01-23-2009, 11:43 PM
Oh hey that would be great if you invited her over for milk and cookies and had a little party. muahahahahaha!

OIFCOMBATVETNYC
01-23-2009, 11:47 PM
artie post the pics because men are visual creatures lol

mel44
01-23-2009, 11:47 PM
OK - If anyone ends up with pics of a slightly older lady in a paper housecoat, naked. Please return them to Tri-care! They still can't find my pics uuuuggggggggg!!!!

Proud Mom
01-24-2009, 03:13 AM
yeah i went home to visit my boyfriend's family and it just so happens that the freaking ex-wife lives next door to his mom's...how fun


Well the ex wife is an EX....hope you strutted your stuff all around the yard where she could see! ;)

Proud Mom
01-24-2009, 03:14 AM
OK - If anyone ends up with pics of a slightly older lady in a paper housecoat, naked. Please return them to Tri-care! They still can't find my pics uuuuggggggggg!!!!


Does Tricare sponsor a porn sight just for Doctors?

mel44
01-24-2009, 03:16 AM
Does Tricare sponsor a porn sight just for Doctors?

Sick bastards!!!! They get turned on by paper gowns and elastic thongs!!!!:eek: :eek:

artiegf
01-24-2009, 03:25 AM
Sick bastards!!!! They get turned on by paper gowns and elastic thongs!!!!:eek: :eek:

muahahaahahahahaa. I almost peed my pants laughing.

imported_travelgirl8
02-25-2009, 06:48 AM
please dont be upset but

he is able to tell her to stop i want the ex and it my who begged to talk to him, his girlfriend didnt like it. i didnt him crazy stuff like that. i did start flirting with by text when i found out she was reading them to piss her off, i can tell her to stop, my ex liked it and he let me. i am not saying what i did was right but i was with for 6 years and a month after he breaks up with me and gets a new girlfiriend i didnt respect her. but he want talk to me so send messages back. if shes not getting an ok resonds from then why is she sending them thats why i talked to him when we werent together. she hated it so told herself to stop talking to him becuae he wouldnt stop talking to me, its over now and i dont talk to any of them beucase i didnt want to be friend of his to discreated to that level it got annoying. you see at the time i really wanted thim back and i told dont come back unless you want to get married when also must have pissed her off but i said that to him 2 days after we broke up not when he was with her but for all i know he was cheaint on me with her. but i can understand why you would be pissed.

imported_travelgirl8
02-25-2009, 06:50 AM
tell him tell to let to cool it and that its over its his job to do it now yours sorry dont be upset with me but she wouldnt believe unless it comes from him she will just interpret is as you being scard to loss him i did when she told me that but this is just my opinion take or leave it

imported_travelgirl8
02-25-2009, 06:53 AM
but i do think she is weird and desperate for doing that. i was only friends with my ex for like a month untill i couldnt take it anymore but we just talked and sent text not sexual. and i only flirted when she was upset with us talking which in retrospect seems mean of me, but my ex didnt mind it at unless weeks later he told not to send him text anymore.

TJMAC77SP
02-25-2009, 12:59 PM
................still coming back to this thread because of the title.

Proud Mom
02-25-2009, 02:06 PM
THAT would be a fitting memorial to the nekkie stick...giving her to Fred for uhhh...ummm.....the ARCHIVE....yeah...for the archive!! LOL

TJMAC77SP
02-25-2009, 02:26 PM
Well Travel, that has been quite some months since I am much older and wiser.hehe. Actually T. and I are still trying to make it work. You are right he was not discouraging the ex and that was the problem. Of course he was not encouraging her either. She wanted money from him and that was how she had always gotten money from him. He is a penile thinker. He liked that I got mad just a little too I believe. The other thing is that she did know I read his stuff because he told her so alot of what she sent was for me and not him.....kinda kinky if you think about it.HA:) So, knowing what I know now I am not offended by your post. I knew it then and I know it now. He could have made our relationship much easier, as I could have too. An interesting thing too, the same pics she sent to him 3 times were also sent to two other men one of which was at his FOB! He later told me that and admited that it didnt feel so good what she did. We are past that now and ready to move on. Thanks for the post.
TJ- you can keep coming back to it. Someday I might just hand over the pics to you for ahhhh safe keeping.hehe.

Feel free to send them my way..................

TJMAC77SP
02-25-2009, 02:27 PM
THAT would be a fitting memorial to the nekkie stick...giving her to Fred for uhhh...ummm.....the ARCHIVE....yeah...for the archive!! LOL

Of course, for the archive. That's it, for the archive...............thanks PM

((Hell, now I have to make an 'archive'))

Proud Mom
02-25-2009, 04:48 PM
Of course, for the archive. That's it, for the archive...............thanks PM

((Hell, now I have to make an 'archive'))


Now I was serious. I should rid myself of them off of my computer and give Nekkie Stick a proper disposal.



SEE! Problem solved!!

She will still be providing "support" to a man, spreading sunshine and smiles and she'll be off your computer!! It's a win-win situation for ya!!

TJMAC77SP
02-25-2009, 05:03 PM
SEE! Problem solved!!

She will still be providing "support" to a man, spreading sunshine and smiles and she'll be off your computer!! It's a win-win situation for ya!!

Can't beat that.............amen !!!

Proud Mom
02-25-2009, 05:11 PM
Can't beat that.............amen !!!

See Fred...I got your back!! ;)

TJMAC77SP
02-25-2009, 06:09 PM
See Fred...I got your back!! ;)

You da best PM !!!!!!!!!

imported_*tenacious*
02-25-2009, 07:49 PM
Hey, i wanna see Nakie Stick! I feel like I've been missing out, lol.

Proud Mom
02-25-2009, 08:49 PM
Hey, i wanna see Nakie Stick! I feel like I've been missing out, lol.


Just picture a preying mantis naked and you got it!! LOL

imported_*tenacious*
02-25-2009, 10:01 PM
Yeah but thats the same as picturing Mischa Barton... lol. She has ALWAYS looked like a praying mantis to me... I want to see evil in stick form!! :)

artiegf
02-26-2009, 02:19 AM
hahaha. its just plain scary. I would hate for you to have nightmares!

Proud Mom
02-26-2009, 03:57 AM
hahaha. its just plain scary. I would hate for you to have nightmares!


Send em to fred and see if he gets scared!! lmao :eek:

imported_Warbyrd13
03-20-2009, 03:56 AM
Been reading through this thread.

right now my ex has tried contacting me. Thankfuly she joined the navy an is stationed west coast an is currently deployed over by Iraq.

My wife is not thrilled that i am talking to her but I just want the few items of mine that this girl decided to keep that was mine. Looks like she also decided to get a dirvorce from her hubby for some odd reason an hopefuly she never tells me about it. So far she hasn;t offered to send me any pics an I am praying she won't try to either becuase then my wife will win our little bet we made. She is convinced the girl is trying to get back with me. I tiold her she might be feeling guilty she kept a few things of mine after our break up n is trying to return them.

Hopefuly i win n get my reward. beucase if i loose my wife wont ever let me live this one down.

hawk71049
03-20-2009, 06:26 AM
Been reading through this thread.

right now my ex has tried contacting me. Thankfuly she joined the navy an is stationed west coast an is currently deployed over by Iraq.

My wife is not thrilled that i am talking to her but I just want the few items of mine that this girl decided to keep that was mine. Looks like she also decided to get a dirvorce from her hubby for some odd reason an hopefuly she never tells me about it. So far she hasn;t offered to send me any pics an I am praying she won't try to either becuase then my wife will win our little bet we made. She is convinced the girl is trying to get back with me. I tiold her she might be feeling guilty she kept a few things of mine after our break up n is trying to return them.

Hopefuly i win n get my reward. beucase if i loose my wife wont ever let me live this one down.

WB,

trust me, drop it, don't continue to communicate, your just asking for trouble...
which is more important the material stuff or your wife.....:confused:
should you get pics, send em back and delete the orig email... :D :D
protect yourself... :)


.

imported_Warbyrd13
03-20-2009, 06:33 AM
Tnx for the advice hawk,

The answer is my wife. the girl hasnt emailed me since our last chat since I have been very smart at not letting her know where i live now. I keep giving her my fathers addy which I know she has when she asked to where I wanted my stuff shipped. Plus I keep the emails very short when we talk. Straight forward n to the point.

axscntU8_Dpstv
03-02-2011, 02:53 AM
I cracked up reading this thread tonight. A blast from the past!

Freedomrider7
03-02-2011, 03:05 AM
I haven't even been on this site in almost a year. It brings back memories. I chose to be my own support system. Anyway, if any of you happen to wonder. I'm doing ok. My mom needs surgery and my life here is well, not exactly easy, but my relationship is great. My bf is a Marine Corps SSgt and treats me like a princess. :)

axscntU8_Dpstv
03-02-2011, 03:20 AM
Freedom, prayers for your mother. I am glad to hear that your relationship is going well. It is good to hear he treats you the way you deserve to be treated.

Freedomrider7
03-02-2011, 06:58 AM
Thanks Ax! Yeah, it's really nice to be treated this way for once.

artiegf
03-02-2011, 02:48 PM
Hey Ax and Freedom! Its been forever since I have been on here too. I have taken notice of your happiness Freedom and I have seen how your life has seemed to come together better. You two look great together. Ax, yeah its a blast from the past for sure. Here is the funniest thing. Nakey stick and I are facebook friends now and have had some pretty interesting conversation about artie. He is remarried to someone he cant stand but she has tons of money.lol. Nakey stick had a baby from another Army man and got married in January. Artie never talks to his daughter and she now calls her step dad daddy. Sad really. Artie stole tons of money from me and I am now having to pay back tons of debt. He actually had many charges against him that I dropped because it meant that when he comes home this month I would have had to fly out to the East coast and dealt with him. I decided that what I chose to do in the name of love and he took advantage of should be my own consequences and to move on. He had many threats against me and my family so getting him kicked out of the Army wasnt conducive to my health! I am sure he will answer for his indiscretions soon enough or later....

SOOOOO let me tell you what this non military girlfriend has got going on. On Saturday I am getting married to a beautiful Godly man who is more than I could have ever imagined would be my husband. He is in the Dairy business like myself, a couple years older than me, no kids, loves kids, goes to church, divorced, good with his finances and is from Southeast not too far from where I went to college. So we have tons of things in common and our meeting out here in Texas was totally a God thing. I'm so blessed. Also our Airforce base has grown a bunch in the last few years and it has brought a whole new life to our community. Its awesome to see so many Southeastern college fans driving around. Life is terrific and I look back two or three years and see what has changed. So many things. I have grown so much. Actually even a year ago when I was dating a teacher that was totally wrong for me in so many ways but I still had not matured and grown in my own skin to know it then. I gave everthing to God about this time last year and have seen my life evolve and blossom. That is my testimony to Faith.. Lots of prayers and love to all of you.

Measure Man
03-02-2011, 04:49 PM
I love how this thread has 18K+ views..far more than most others.

Should be good info for someone in adverstising/marketing...lol

TJMAC77SP
03-02-2011, 07:59 PM
The thread title draws me in everytime.........................

Freedomrider7
03-02-2011, 08:20 PM
Artiegf, that is wonderful to hear! I did know some of that since I as well have noticed your happiness.

mel44
03-02-2011, 10:48 PM
Hey artie got my wedding invitation and loved it. I am so happy your finally found the love of your life. Let the other part go, it will just keep on stinking and being a ole dead subject. Love you little girl

axscntU8_Dpstv
03-03-2011, 12:30 AM
Artie I am so happy for you. Life is definitely a blessing and when you leave it all in His hands you realize that His plan is always better than yours.

May you enjoy many blessed years together with this wonderful man. :)

axscntU8_Dpstv
03-03-2011, 12:30 AM
Artie I am so happy for you. Life is definitely a blessing and when you leave it all in His hands you realize that His plan is always better than yours.

May you enjoy many blessed years together with this wonderful man. :)

Lucky_Seven
01-19-2012, 02:58 PM
Wow that is so low of her..if i want it to stop..i'll save the pics. make her a fb account under her name and post them pics. up on her profile and add all her friends and family to see her pics. eventually she will get the point of respecting herself and her own body...good luck..

Punisher
11-09-2012, 12:14 PM
Test, test, test

Punisher
11-09-2012, 12:14 PM
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Punisher
11-09-2012, 12:14 PM
ktgulighuhoi

Punisher
11-09-2012, 12:14 PM
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Punisher
11-09-2012, 12:15 PM
jkugukhlikhlk

RS6405
11-09-2012, 12:17 PM
Happy now?

I think you'll have some disappointed peeps who will think there are new pics posted. :bolt

Punisher
11-09-2012, 12:31 PM
Happy now?

I think you'll have some disappointed peeps who will think there are new pics posted. :bolt

Ah, ya know, just testing some things out.

Punisher
11-09-2012, 12:32 PM
Sorry for any disappointments.

TJMAC77SP
11-09-2012, 01:04 PM
Had to post in order to up rep from the other account?

mel44
03-01-2013, 05:02 AM
Just thought I would drop by and pull up some memories! I see some of you are still around - Hope your all doing well and families are well! Sorry for the newbies no naked pics but Heidi we all miss your presence here Mel...........

Pullinteeth
03-01-2013, 04:20 PM
Just thought I would drop by and pull up some memories! I see some of you are still around - Hope your all doing well and families are well! Sorry for the newbies no naked pics but Heidi we all miss your presence here Mel...........

MEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Robert F. Dorr
03-05-2013, 02:56 PM
Look, if you get any naked pics of women sent to you and don't know how to deal with them, forward them to me at stingersplash2020@gmail.com and I will take care of it.

Would someone explain why this interesting and informative thread seems to have gone away?

MACHINE666
03-05-2013, 08:18 PM
Would someone explain why this interesting and informative thread seems to have gone away?

Because I sent naked photos of myself to everybody.

I can't help it if people don't drool over a fat, hairy nerd the way I drool when I see my own photos?

:D :D :D :D :D

KellyinAvon
03-05-2013, 11:11 PM
Because I sent naked photos of myself to everybody.

I can't help it if people don't drool over a fat, hairy nerd the way I drool when I see my own photos?

:D :D :D :D :D

As a consigliere, I must advise you that the Blue-ID Mafia does not have a "Buck-Naked Family". There's a good reason for that too.

mel44
03-09-2013, 09:33 PM
MEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hey you!!! How's the fam?

mel44
03-09-2013, 09:35 PM
Because I sent naked photos of myself to everybody.

I can't help it if people don't drool over a fat, hairy nerd the way I drool when I see my own photos?

:D :D :D :D :DNow Mac you know that's a secret - Now everyone is going to want one :eyebrows

Pullinteeth
03-11-2013, 01:33 PM
Hey you!!! How's the fam?

Doin well. We have moved yet again. Still in the south though... Girls are getting big. How is life in your world?

mel44
05-20-2013, 05:33 PM
Doin well. We have moved yet again. Still in the south though... Girls are getting big. How is life in your world?
We are good! another slew of grandbabies, Bought our retirement home in the San Antonio area. Civilian life is starting to settle in :) - Liz will be home from Afghanistan in July, hopefully this is the last one for our family - We are certainly tired and ready to turn the camo in for some bluejeans and flip flops.

mel44
05-20-2013, 05:42 PM
Doin well. We have moved yet again. Still in the south though... Girls are getting big. How is life in your world?
We are good! another slew of grandbabies, Bought our retirement home in the San Antonio area. Civilian life is starting to settle in :) - Liz will be home from Afghanistan in July, hopefully this is the last one for our family - We are certainly tired and ready to turn the camo in for some bluejeans and flip flops.

mel44
03-25-2014, 04:59 AM
Hey fellows just blew by to say hi! Hope everyone is doing well! We got yet another grand baby and moved to the tundra (Minneapolis) snow snow snow...........

Robert F. Dorr
03-25-2014, 08:49 AM
Just blew bi to say high?